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{"id":29455,"date":"2026-01-14T11:08:08","date_gmt":"2026-01-14T11:08:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hubeali.com\/?p=29455"},"modified":"2026-01-14T11:31:02","modified_gmt":"2026-01-14T11:31:02","slug":"arranged-marriage-in-islam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hubeali.com\/arranged-marriage-in-islam\/","title":{"rendered":"Arranged Marriage in Islam"},"content":{"rendered":" Summary: \n There is a growing resistance to arranged marriages.
However, this opposition is against the traditions of Allah -azwj and His -azwj Prophets -as , as we will read in the following sections.
The overall topic of Marriage is rather vast and is addressed elsewhere, e.g., \n First-Cousin Marriage in Islam \n \n https:\/\/hubeali.com\/article\/family-life-nikah-mutah-relationship-and-upbringing-children \n https:\/\/hubeali.com\/article\/family-problems-and-guidance-from-islam \n Court Marriage in Islam | Hubeali \n Marriage of Syedani with Non Syed | Hubeali \n Here, we confine our attention to prevailing practices among Muslims, in general, and among Twelve Imami Shias in particular, in opposition to traditions regarding the marriage proposal and choosing a husband, to be, for a daughter or sister.
\n General Muslims quote from Rasool Allah -saww : \u2018Go and look at her, because that is more likely to create love between you.\u2019 [1] – [2] Shia Mujtahids have also issued Fatawa in favour of the above, misinterpreting those Ahadith that are exclusively for the buying of a maid, e.g., to look at her before you spend money on her purchase, see Appendix I.\u00a0 Meeting and socialising of the man and woman seeking marriage is the prevailing tradition in the Western society which Muslims, unfortunately Shias have started following and is becoming norm to have premarriage meetings!
\n The Sunnah of earlier Prophets -as and Ahl Al-Byat -asws has been to respect the integrity of a lady and be foremost in respecting her honour and self-esteem, e.g., \n \u2018Whenever Rasool Allah -saww intended to marry an unknown woman, Prophet -saww sent over a woman to look at her (Hadith to follow). [3] \n Imam Musa -asws Ibn Jafar -asws (7 th Imam) said: \u2018 As for the free ones (from women), so you should not be mentioning them (in public) . An extract, Hadith to follow.