If she loses her chastity, she will lose all her shame, and if she remains chaste, she will maintain all the remaining five parts.” [29] . وقال صلي الله عليه و اله و سلم: أربعٌ يُمِتْنَ القلب: الذَنْبُ على الذَنْب، وكثرةُ مثافنة النساء -يعني مُحادَثتهنّ- ومُماراة الأحمق؛ تقولُ ويَقولُ ولا يَرجع إلى خيرٍ أبداً، ومُجالسة الموتى، فقيل: يا رسول الله، وما الموتى؟ قال: كلّ غَنّيٍ مُترفٍ.
Rasool Allah -saww said: “Four acts will make the heart perish: committing sins continuously; talking with women often; arguing with a fool since you talk with him but he will never be guided to the right way, and associating with the dead!” They asked him what he means by the dead?
Rasool Allah -saww said: “All the rich who live in ease and luxury.” [30] عِدَّةٌ مِنْ أَصْحَابِنَا عَنْ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ خَالِدٍ الْبَرْقِيِّ عَنْ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ أَبِي نَصْرٍ عَنْ حَمَّادِ بْنِ عُثْمَانَ عَنْ أَبِي بَصِيرٍ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ( عليه السلام ) قَالَ خَيْرُ نِسَائِكُمُ الَّتِي إِذَا خَلَتْ مَعَ زَوْجِهَا خَلَعَتْ لَهُ دِرْعَ الْحَيَاءِ وَ إِذَا لَبِسَتْ لَبِسَتْ مَعَهُ دِرْعَ الْحَيَاءِ .
A number of our companions, from Ahmad Bin Muhammad Bin Khalid Al barqy, from Ahmad Bin Muhammad Bin Abu Nasr, from Hammad Bin Usman, from Abu Baseer, (It has been narrated) from Abu Abdullah -asws having said: ‘The best of your women is the one who, when she is alone with her husband, puts off the shield of shyness, and when she dresses up, she dresses up for him a shield of shyness’.
A number of our companions, from Ahmad Bin Muhammad Bin Isa, from Al Husay Bin Saeed, from Al Husayn Bin Ulwan, from Sa’ad Bin Tareyf, from Al Asbagh Bin Nubata who said, ‘Amir Al-Momineen -asws said: ‘Allah -azwj Created the desires to be of ten-parts.