Even during the battle of Safween...
Even during the battle of Safween, Imam Ali -asws said to his -asws son, (Imam Hassan ‑asws ): وَ قَالَ ع لِابْنِهِ الْحَسَنِ ع لَا تَدْعُوَنَّ إِلَى مُبَارَزَةٍ وَ إِنْ [فَإِنْ] دُعِيتَ إِلَيْهَا فَأَجِبْ فَإِنَّ الدَّاعِيَ إِلَيْهَا بَاغٍ وَ الْبَاغِيَ مَصْرُوعٌ Imam Ali -asws Ibn Abu Talib -asws said: ‘Do not challenge anyone to a duel (fight), but if you are called upon to duel, (only then) respond, because one who calls to a fight is an oppressor, and the oppressor is always defeated.’ [19] Continue on your way when someone is Insulting: فَقُلْتُ لَهُ يَا سَيِّدِي لَمْ أَعْلَمْ مَا فِي رِجْلِ الْبَابِ فَقَالَ وَ لِمَ احْتَجْتَ أَنْ تَعْمَلَ عَمَلًا تَحْتَاجُ أَنْ تَعْتَذِرَ مِنْهُ إِيَّاكَ بَعْدَهَا أَنْ تَعُودَ إِلَى مِثْلِهَا وَ إِذَا سَمِعْتَ لَنَا شَاتِماً فَامْضِ لِسَبِيلِكَ الَّتِي أُمِرْتَ بِهَا وَ إِيَّاكَ أَنْ تُجَاوِبَ مَنْ يَشْتِمُنَا أَوْ تُعَرِّفَهُ مَنْ أَنْتَ فَإِنَّا بِبَلَدِ سَوْءٍ وَ مِصْرَ سَوْءٍ وَ امْضِ فِي طَرِيقِكَ فَإِنَّ أَخْبَارَكَ وَ أَحْوَالَكَ تُرَدُّ إِلَيْنَا فَاعْلَمْ ذَلِكَ ‘I said to him asws (the Imam -asws ), ‘O my Master asws !
I did not know what was in the base of the door.’ He asws said: ‘And why did you have to do a deed being needy to apologise from it? ‘‘Beware after it from repeating similar to it, and whenever you hear insults to us asws , then continue on your way, which I asws instruct you with and beware of replying to the one who insults us asws , or introducing to him who you are, for we are in an evil country, and an evil city.
And continue in your road, for your news and your situations are being referred to us asws , so know that!’’ (See the complete Hadith in Appendix II). [20] Extending the Fight from Verbal to Physical: وَ قَالَ ع مَنْ بَالَغَ فِي الْخُصُومَةِ أَثِمَ وَ مَنْ قَصَّرَ فِيهَا ظُلِمَ وَ لَا يَسْتَطِيعُ أَنْ يَتَّقِيَ اللَّهَ مَنْ خَاصَمَ Imam Ali -asws ibn Abu Talib -asws said: ‘Whoever goes too far in quarrelling is a sinner, but if one falls short in it (quarrel), one is oppressed.
But the one who initiates the fight will lose the ability to fear Allah -azwj .’ [21] How to Clear the air (to suppress the rage)?
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