[27] عَلِيُّ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي...
[27] عَلِيُّ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي عُمَيْرٍ عَنْ حَمَّادِ بْنِ عُثْمَانَ عَنِ الْحَلَبِيِّ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ( عليه السلام ) فِي الْجَارِيَةِ يُزَوِّجُهَا أَبُوهَا بِغَيْرِ رِضًا مِنْهَا قَالَ لَيْسَ لَهَا مَعَ أَبِيهَا أَمْرٌ إِذَا أَنْكَحَهَا جَازَ نِكَاحُهُ وَ إِنْ كَانَتْ كَارِهَةً Ali Bin Ibrahim, from his father, from Ibn Abu Umeyr, from Hammad Bin Usman, from Al Halby, (It has been narrated) from Abu Abdullah -asws regarding the girl getting married off by her father without her consent.
He -asws said: ‘There is no command with her with her father. If he was to get her married off, the marriage would be allowed, even if she dislikes it’. قَالَ وَ سُئِلَ عَنْ رَجُلٍ يُرِيدُ أَنْ يُزَوِّجَ أُخْتَهُ قَالَ يُؤَامِرُهَا فَإِنْ سَكَتَتْ فَهُوَ إِقْرَارُهَا وَ إِنْ أَبَتْ لَمْ يُزَوِّجْهَا He (the narrator) said, ‘And he -asws was asked about a man who wanted to get his sister married off.
He -asws said: ‘ He can permit her, and if she remains silent, so it is her agreement, but if she refuses, he cannot get her married ’.
[28] Seeking Marriage Proposal: وَ يُسْتَحَبُّ أَنْ يَخْطُبَ بِخُطْبَةِ الرِّضَا ع تَبَرُّكاً بِهَا لِأَنَّهَا جَامِعَةٌ فِي مَعْنَاهَا وَ هُوَ And it is recommended to address with the sermon of Al-Reza -asws to be Blessed by it, because it is comprehensive in its meaning, and it is: – الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ الَّذِي حَمِدَ فِي الْكِتَابِ نَفْسَهُ وَ افْتَتَحَ بِالْحَمْدِ كِتَابَهُ وَ جَعَلَ الْحَمْدَ أَوَّلَ مَحَلِّ نِعْمَتِهِ وَ آخِرَ جَزَاءِ أَهْلِ طَاعَتِهِ وَ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَى مُحَمَّدٍ خَيْرِ الْبَرِيَّةِ وَ عَلَى آلِهِ أَئِمَّةِ الرَّحْمَةِ وَ مَعَادِنِ الحِكْمَةِ ‘The Praise is for Allah -azwj Who Praised Himself in the Book and Began His -azwj Book with the Praise, and Made the Praise and Made praise the first of His -azwj bounties and the final Reward for the ones obeying Him -azwj , and may Allah -azwj Send Salawaat upon Muhammad -saww , the best of created beings, and upon his -saww Progeny -asws , the Imams -asws of mercy and the mines of wisdom!
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