\n Ali Bin Hatim informed me...
\n Ali Bin Hatim informed me, from Abu Al Fazal Al Abbas Bin Muhammad Bin Al Qasim Al Alawy, from Al Hassan Bin Sahl, from Muhammad Bin Sahl, from Muhammad Bin Hatim, from Yaqoub Ibn Yazeed, from Ali Bin Asbaat, from Ubeyd Bin Zarara who said, \n \u2018A child of one of the companions of Abu Abdullah -asws died, so Abu Abdullah -asws was present at his funeral. So when his body was placed in the grave, his father moved forward to place the soil upon him.
So Abu Abdullah -asws grabbed his shoulder and said: \u2018Do not lay the soil upon him, and the ones who were his relatives (also) should not place the soil upon him\u2019. So we said, \u2018O son -asws of Rasool-Allah -saww !
Are you -asws forbidding from this one alone?\u2019 So he -asws said: \u2018I -asws am forbidding you all to place the soil upon the relatives, for that inherits the hardness in the heart; and the one who is hard of heart is remote from his Lord -azwj Mighty and Majestic \u2019.