When he arrives home late after the daily work, the child is sleeping.

When he arrives home late after the daily work, the child is sleeping. Such fathers are not ideal fathers. On the other hand, the ideal father should find time to play with the children, seat them on his lap, and caress their head lovingly. A father’s smile for his child is very important and valuable. Similarly, his smile for his wife and his love towards his wife is very important, because human beings crave for love. Therefore, the wife expects love from the husband more than anything else.

Similarly, the children also expect love from their father. When a man enters his house, he should at least say “Salaamun ‘alaykum”. If he does not do this, he should at least meet his family with a smile. He should not come home with a long face, because it is a big calamity for the house. Sometimes husbands and wives hurt each other a lot. If the husband is ill-tempered, he goes to the extent of beating his wife. This sin will attract grave retribution.

There are some husbands who neither verbally abuse nor beat their wives, but they are always angry and sullen at home. The wife might have preferred to bear a hundred lashes from the husband than his glum demeanor. This attitude is worst than lashing the wife hundred times and this may lead the wife to get fed-up with his husband. A husband should not assume that if he has a good tempered wife, she will remain so forever. If there is a decrease in love from your side, she can become bad.

Similarly if there is a decrease in love for your son or daughter, it will inevitably lead to disaster. One has always to bear in mind that for a human being love is a prime need. If the ladies at home become paragons of love, they will be the most successful homemakers. On the contrary, if a woman is devoid of love and compassion, she becomes unhappy and inactive at home and in the society at large. 2 Comments 2 Comments Similarly, what are the duties wife and mother?

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