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When to get Married (1) - Al-Shia The Scientific and Cultural Website of Shia belief When to get Married (1) 2021-06-24 561 Views Marriage , Spouse selection , Marriage conditions One of the important problems in connection with marriage and choosing a spouse, which must be taken into consideration, is the time and age to get married. Thus, the question that usually comes to the minds of every youth is when to get married.

Contents The Puberty age Marriage: A Medium of reaching Allah The Time of Sexual and Mental maturity And, everybody has endeavored to answer this question according to his own taste and predisposition, understanding, knowledge, and mental ability. We must say that the answer to the question “when must we marry?” is hidden in the interior of man’s nature and instinct and does not need logic of knowledge, or philosophy.

We should look inside ourselves and give its answer from our nature, instincts and inclinations, which responds in a truthful manner, without different hurdles, ceremonies, habits, customs and prejudices. It is much like hunger and thirst, which are not controlled or governed by any law, which tells when to eat and drink. Instead, a man knows by virtue of his nature when he is hungry or thirsty and when he is not, and when is a suitable time to eat, and when is not. Yes!

Laws can be formulated for the pertinent matters, such as not eating rotten, prohibited and illegal food, and never drinking contaminated water. Instead, man should eat licit, lawful and healthy food and must not eat during fasting etc. But a law cannot be set for the actual and basic needs of hunger, thirst, eating and drinking. The need for a spouse and raising a family is a natural and instinctive need, which Allah has, through His wisdom, placed in human beings.

It is awakened at its particular time and season, and makes its demand. If it is responded to at its appropriate time when its requirement is fulfilled, it traverses its natural course and reaches the summit of maturity and completion and makes man reach that point. However, if it is delayed or responded to in an incorrect and unnatural mode, it deviates from its natural course, revolts and rebels.

Just as if the natural and instinctive needs of man such as hunger and thirst are not properly answered, they become deviated and drive man towards ailment, disease, the eating of stale and prohibited food, and occasionally, stealing and death.