It cancels the feelings of security and self-confidence.

It cancels the feelings of security and self-confidence. Modern psychological surveys have confirmed that the most critical causes of disquietude are the nullity of the family emotional warmth, feelings of others negligence, deprivation of love, kindness, and affection, and feelings of weakness in the aggressive world.

Secondly, inequality among brothers arises the feelings of disquietude in the children’s minds, and kills the spirits of keenness that help in pushing the way easily and tranquilly. Disordered men feel of depression and mental torment everywhere. Fathers should treat their sons equally, lest the sons will be affected by such serious ailments that smash the mental entities.

Cordiality Fathers must cover their family members, especially spouses, with cordiality, affection, and benevolence, and meet their needs entirely. God has instituted this as one of the wife’s rights. It also contributes in the children’s prudent education and personal contentment that live in aspects that are filled with love, affection, peace, and settlement. Islam has urged on caring for wives. The Prophet (PBUH&HP) said: The best of you are the best to their wife. I am the best to my wives.

He also said: Wives are the husbands delight. Almighty God favors those who deal with their delight in the best way. Imam Muhammad Al-Baqir (PBUH) says: May God’s mercy be upon those who enjoy good relations with their wives. Allah the Exalted gave men the wives in possession and made them their custodians. Imam Jafar As-Sadiq (PBUH) says: Fear God while you deal with the two weak; women and slaves. Fathers ought not to displease or wrong their wives.

The Prophet (PBUH&HP) says: The best men of my nation are those who do not encroach or wrong their wives and those who treat them kindly. He then recited Gods saying: Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others. Fathers natures and manners to their family members leave the greatest influence on the children’s consonance in the society. The children’s personalities achieve prosperity only when their father’s treatments are well.

Contrariwise, children’s behaviors and intellectual maturity are badly affected and ceased if fathers use rudeness. Avoidance of Obscene Language Fathers, as paterfamiliases, are in charge of constituting the educational entity of their families. They should avoid obscene language, vulgarity, and any matter that injures the general manners.