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Islamic Conditions for Marriage (2) - Al-Shia The Scientific and Cultural Website of Shia belief Islamic Conditions for Marriage (2) 2023-02-03 672 Views Marriage , Nikkah , Marriage in Islam , Marriage conditions In this part of the article titled “Islamic Conditions for Marriage”, we shall focus on other relevant issues on the topic here. Contents Those Whom You should not Let Your Daughters Marry Do not Marry Such Women How to Choose a Spouse?
The Evil-Doer is Deprived of God’s Mercy The Path to Perfection Those Whom You should not Let Your Daughters Marry It is stated in divine books that man is entrusted with children who are God’s blessing and kindness. To safeguard this “trust” we must attend to their moral and religious education and choose a pure and good spouse for them to marry. The woman who gets married and goes to her husband’s home will be influenced by her husband, his family and his home.
In that environment, she will be asked to do things by her husband. The house she goes to must be a divine home with a believing family. Her husband must be reasonably well-mannered and good-tempered, too. It is for this reason that the divine religion has strictly forbidden marrying your daughters to those who do not fulfil Islamic conditions.
The Prophet (Pbuh) has been narrated as saying: Marriage is a form of obedience, that is once you marry your daughters off to someone, you in fact make her obedient to him. Therefore, you must all be very careful as to whom you entrust your daughters to. (1) It is not permitted to marry off your daughters to one who does not adhere to a religion, divine decrees and just beliefs. Such a person is considered to be corrupt according to the divine book.
It is not permitted to marry off your daughters to one who is ill-tempered, haughty, jealous, greedy, and vulgar. It is neither permitted nor humane to marry off your daughters to an ignorant, stupid, unwise man who cannot run his life and causes a lot of problems for the woman. It is strictly forbidden to marry off your daughters to an alcoholic who is so base that he does not abstain from what God has forbidden. Now consider the very important traditions in this regard.
One who marries off his dear noble daughter to an irreligious man will be cursed a thousand times a day. (2) Husayn, the son of Bishar wrote to Musa the son of Jaffar (PBUH) “One of my relatives who is ill-tempered has requested to marry my daughter”.