[2] This statement teaches that just as a servant behaves toward his master...

[2] This statement teaches that just as a servant behaves toward his master, bearing his anger, enduring his faults, and recognizing him as the source of blessings, a believer should act in the same way toward his friends. In this regard, Imam Sadiq (AS) said: “Sometimes a person in need comes to me, and I rush to fulfill his request, because I fear he may become independent of me.

Be aware that the gifts of this world and the Hereafter are summarized in three words from the Book of God: “Adopt [a policy of] excusing [the faults of people], bid what is right, and turn away from the ignorant”. [3] The interpretation of this verse is that you should reconnect with the one who cuts ties, pardon the one who wrongs you, and give to the one who deprives you. 3.

Avoiding Misplaced Humility and Kindness Imam Ali (AS): “Beware of placing this conduct in the wrong place or with those unworthy of it” . [4] There are those who misuse kindness and only increase in corruption. Some become lazy and entitled because of financial aid, while others grow arrogant and reckless when continually excused. Therefore, one must be discerning in offering kindness and generosity. 4.

Avoid Friendship with the Enemy of a Friend Imam Ali (AS): “Do not take the enemy of your friend as a friend, lest you become an enemy to your own friend” . [5] Making friends with the enemy of your friend is itself a betrayal of friendship. This principle also applies to our relationship with God: befriending the enemies of God is enmity with God.

The Quran warns: “Do not incline toward those who have wronged, lest the Fire touch you, and you have no protectors other than God, and you will not be helped” . [6] 5. Sincere Counsel for Friendship Imam Ali (AS): “Offer your brother sincere advice, whether it pleases him or not” . [7] Sometimes sincere advice brings gratitude; at other times it may cause discomfort. Yet true friendship requires offering it regardless.

The Prophet (S) said: “The person whose rank will be highest before God on the Day of Judgment is the one who walked the most in giving sincere counsel to God’s servants on earth” . [8] 6. Friendship Through Controlling Anger Imam Ali (AS): “Swallow your anger, for I have not seen a gulp sweeter in outcome or more pleasant in result” . [9] Suppressing anger is difficult at first, but its consequences are sweet and fulfilling.

“Be gentle with one who is harsh toward you, for he may soon soften toward you” .