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Tips to Have Islamic Educated Children - Al-Shia The Scientific and Cultural Website of Shia belief Tips to Have Islamic Educated Children 2023-01-24 565 Views Islam and Children , Child Upbringing , Raising a Child The directives concerning education in Islam are many and the ways for reformation are well defined.

Here we will mention some of the most important ones and concentrate on the following directives and suggestions and beseech Allah to make our endeavours successful: * It is advisable for parents to build a harmonious and loving relationship between them because constant disagreement or abnormal behaviour on their part reflects on their children’s conduct.

Disrespect for each other by the husband and wife, constant nagging or quarrelling, violence, discontent and an atmosphere of gloom and hatred have negative effects on the children’s psychology and personality which ultimately leads to bad behaviour and low morals. Therefore the parents’ mutual relationship and their behaviour are of vital importance because it leaves its good or bad effects on the family as a whole, but more particularly on the children, who in turn infect society.

* We must give our children love and kindness and teach them good manners, in order to create a harmonious family. An atmosphere of peace and security would help them to develop their personalities and guarantees their safe future. In contrast, children, who don’t receive any love and sympathy from their parents, will grow up to be irresponsible misfits. Such behaviour is likely to make the child abnormal, and have a psychological complex, full of hatred, aimlessness and social ills.

* Adolescent or growing-up children, who are becoming conscious of themselves and the environment around them should not be maltreated or ridiculed by parents. Paying scant respect to their budding personality and making them feel imperfect may lead them to disobey and dislike their own parents.

To treat them harshly and deprive them of their material needs may push the adolescents toward such immoralities as lying, theft, fraud, psychological disorders and etc., thereby affecting the whole society. * It is not proper for parents to discriminate among their own children, doting on one but neglecting the other, because the feeling of negligence will instil in the child an unconscious abhorrence for the parents, weakening family ties and ruining the child’s future.