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Criteria for Spouse Selection 7 - Al-Shia The Scientific and Cultural Website of Shia belief Criteria for Spouse Selection 7 2021-06-24 635 Views Spouse selection , choosing spouse , criteria for spouse In continuation of the discussion on the criteria for spouse selection in Islam, we shall discuss in this part another eight important criteria to be considered while selecting a spouse.

Contents A LESSON-GIVING SPECIMEN FROM THE “MIRROR OF LESSON” 5- PHYSICAL COMPATIBILITY ATTENTION 6- EQUALITY OF BEAUTY 7- EQUALITY IN AGE 8- ECONOMICAL EQUALITY 9- FAMILY EQUALITY 10- POLITICAL CONSISTENCY 11- SOCIAL CONSISTENCY A CONSIDERABLE SPECIMEN 12- PSYCHOLOGICAL CONSISTENCY A LESSON-GIVING SPECIMEN FROM THE “MIRROR OF LESSON” These days when I am busy teaching and writing this book, a TV program named ‘Falling Leaf’ is being broadcast from the serial ‘Mirror of Lesson’.

Although I do not wish to support the whole of this serial, there is an attractive point in it, which is appropriate to this part of our discussion. That is, Asana’s higher level of education compared to Ali’s. We see how Asana belittles her husband Ali who has less education than her. And what painful difficulties have come into existence in their life. The higher education of Asana does not have any good or benefit for their joint life, rather, it is a means of harm.

Had Ali married an equally educated girl and Asana married a boy of her own lever, most of their agonies and disputes would not have taken shape. 5- PHYSICAL COMPATIBILITY Balance and proportionality of the physique and sex have great importance in the life of spouses. Sexual problems are one of the real and fundamental organs and pillars of marital life.

Mutual sexual saturation and satisfaction of the husband and the wife have a deep and profound effect on their lives, just as dissatisfaction and lack of saturation have destructive and dangerous effects on the total sum of marital life. If they satisfy and please each other from this aspect, they would be thankful to each other and put their duties and responsibilities into practice and tolerate the odds of life.

But if they are displeased in this regard, they may hate each other and be disappointed and they may fail in the performance of their matrimonial responsibilities. This is a major point, which is regrettable belittled and overlooked in most cases, or it is passed by shamefully and shyly, and consequently causes terrible shocks.