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The Rights of Wives - Al-Shia The Scientific and Cultural Website of Shia belief The Rights of Wives 2021-06-24 574 Views Wife's rights , Marriage in Islam The Islamic law (Sharia) has paid the greatest attention to wives and granted the certain rights that are based on wisdom, justice, and the interests of both spouses. These include: Contents 1. Disbursement 2. Good hip 3. Protection False Rights Removal of the Veil Moral Defects 1.
Disbursement It is obligatory upon the husbands to provide their wives with the essentials needs, such as clothing, food, and shelter, as well as other requisites that meet their status and way of living. From the viewpoint of the Islamic laws, disbursement is a common right that husbands must carry out for their wives, no matter how wealthy they are. This right, however, does not cease to be valid unless if the wife is disobedient or exempt him from it.
Furthermore, husbands are not allowed to coerce their wives to do the household managements or nurse the babies unless they themselves do such matters voluntarily. 2. Good hip Wife is the husband’s intimate companion and life partner. She shares with him both the pleasant and unpleasant situations, consoles him in sorrow and joy, does household chores, and take proper care of the family members.
Hence, it is necessary for the husbands to appreciate the relentless efforts of their wives and treat them with kindness and leniency. Unfortunately, some husbands think that manhood cannot be achieved unless they control, mistreat, insult, and disgrace their wives. This is indeed a wrong perception. As a matter of fact, such qualities are detestable, since it indicates the complexity and feebleness of their personality.
In addition, it also creates disorderliness in marital life and destroy the family pleasure. Of course, due to her emotions, woman is sensitive and quick-tempered; therefore, she may, sometimes, utter an unbecoming word or stinging reproach originated from a mental excitement or emotional agitation. In such cases, the husbands are required to control themselves and reciprocate it with forgiveness, so that the matrimonial relationship will go on peacefully.
Thus, it is expected of a man, when his wife exceeds the limits of disobedience to him, to treat her gently through admonition. But if such means prove futility, he must follow the method of ignoring her and avoiding sleeping with her. If this is also useless, he may then beat her slightly, but not severely: .