After that we must watch over the self strictly so that he...
After that we must watch over the self strictly so that he does not commit back-biting, and in case he commits it, we must take a bold stand against it without being lenient, and must execute the promised punishment against him. Once, the imperious-self realized that we are serious in refraining from sins and will strictly execute the punishment without least compassion, he will surrender himself before our genuine demands.
If, we implemented this program without any negligence, we may close the paths of Satan's entries, and achieve absolute domination over the self, with the condition that we must take a definite decision and must punish the rebellious-self without showing least compassion.
It is strange that regarding minor violations of civil laws, the violators are indicted and punished, but unfortunately for self-cleansing and refinement this method is not practiced, in spite of the fact that our prosperity and eternal salvation depends upon it. Many of the God’s deserving servants by utilization of the same method were able to attain self-refinement, self-cleaning, and self-domination.
The Commander of the Faithful, Imam ‘Ali (a.s.) said: قال على عليه السلام: نعم العون على اسر النفس وكسر عادتها الجوع. “Hunger is the most effective tool for achieving self-domination and breaking habits.” [^2] And said: قال على عليه السلام: من استدام رياضة نفسه انتفع. “Whoever practices self-asceticism is bound to earn benefits.” [^3] One of the Prophet's companion said: “Once on a hot summer day the (S) was sitting under the shade of a tree,.
suddenly a man appeared who after c taking, off his clothes laid down with bare back upon the hot sand and started rolling over it, alternatively making his back and stomach to bear the hot sand, occasionally covering his face with it, said: 'Oh my imperious-self! You better taste the heat of this hot sand particles, and know it that the heat of Hell ' s fire is for severe and painful than this.
“The holy Prophet (S) witnessed the above scene with interest, and having wore his clothes when the man wanted to return, the Holy Prophet asked the man to come near him, and said: 'I saw you doing some thing strange which is not done by any other person. What was the motive behind this act. ?” “The man replied: 'Oh Prophet of God: The fear of God forced me to perform this act. By performing this act I said to my self.