The best way of regarding the relatives is to save them from harm.

The best way of regarding the relatives is to save them from harm. Regard of relatives surely postpones the deadline of life and endears to the family members[^7].” “Regard of the relatives and charity make the Judgment on the Day of Resurrection- easier and protect against committing sins.

Hence, you are advised of regarding your relatives and doing charity even by saying nice salaams and responding others’ salutations[^8].” Imam as-Sadiq (a) narrated that, once, a man said to the Prophet (S): “God’s Messenger, my relatives have rallied against me, disregarded me, and reviled at me.

Should I disavow them?” The Prophet (S) answered: “If you do, Allah will disavow all of you.” He wondered: “How should I do, then?” The Prophet (S) instructed: “You should regard those who disregarded you, give those who deprived you (of their endowments), and pardon those who wronged you. If you do it, Allah will support you against them[^9].” A family contains individuals of various standings. There is the rich and the poor, the strong and the weak, and the celebrity and the ignoble.

Except by means of solidarity and mutual sympathy, a family cannot achieve might and luxury and cannot face the life problems with steadfastness. In his last hours, Aktham Ibn Saifi; the famous wise man, summoned his sons, collected a group of sticks, and asked each of them to break it. None could break that group. He then gave a single stick to each of them to break. They could break easily.

Commenting on this situation, he said to them: “Like these sticks, always be together so that you cannot be broken.” Disregard of the Relatives Disregard of the relatives stands for any word or deed that oppresses the relatives, such as revilement, backbiting, alienation, and deprivation of feelings of sympathy.

According to the Islamic Sharia, it is a grand sin threatened with punishment: “If you ignore the commands of Allah would you then also spread evil in the land and sever the ties of kinship? (47:22).” “Those who break their established covenant with Him and the relations He has commanded to be kept and spread evil in the land are the ones who lose a great deal.