The Holy Prophet (S) asked him, “What do you see, at this moment.
He said, “O Allah forgive the sins of this young man.” Then the youth passed away.[^5] This tradition shows how difficult are the last moments of the Āq al-Walidayn. He leaves this world in disbelief and remains, forever, in Divine punishment. The tutor of Kalima for this young man was the Holy Prophet (S). In spite of this his tongue did not move till his mother forgive him. The blessings of the Holy Prophet (S) and the forgiveness of his mother brought salvation for this youth.
What is Āq al-Walidayn? Allama Majlisi (r.a.) writes in his commentary on al-Kāfi: Āq al-Walidayn means that the son or the daughter cause disrespect to parents by speech or actions. Or they do not obey them in matters which are within reason and matters which are not in any way against religion. Āq al-Walidayn is absolutely Harām. The books of traditions of both the Shias as well as the Sunnis validate this fact.
To look at the parents with anger is Āq , to cause unhappiness to the parents results in Āq . It is Harām to take any step, which one is sure, will displease the parents. Benevolence to Parents is Wajib The verses of the Qur’an as well as the traditions of the infallible Imams (a.s.) not only prohibit displeasing and angering the parents, but also stress that benevolence towards them is Wajib .
A few examples of the Qur’anic Ayats are presented for the readers: “And We have enjoined on man goodness to his parents.” (Surah Al-’Ankabūt 29:8) “Be grateful to Me and both your parents...” (Surah Luqmān 31:14) The above verse is specially worth noting for the fact that Allah (S.w.T.) has mentioned together gratefulness towards Himself and to the parents.