The elders should neither make it so boring...
The elders should neither make it so boring, dreary, and monotonous that the innocent souls start hating themselves, and nor should they "bear with the whims and airs" of their children, and accept their pretention to such an extent, that they go astray, and get lost in the bewilderness! __________________________ 87. Wash as-Shia', VoI:15, Page:204 Man'-Ia-Yahzur'-al-Faqih, Vol:2, Page: 157 Well, excess and deficiency in any sphere of human life, is dangerous.
Children are also, no exception to this rule! When the undue "love and affection" to the dear ones reach it's apex, the beloved's go astray. The children who have gained maturity but are still extremely naughty, stubborn, perverse, wilful, boastful, arrogant, ill mannered, libelous, ruddy, and abusive, one could rightly guess. that all this is the result of undue favouritism of their parents, and an extremely evil omen for the future!
Due to this fact, Baqar-ul-Uloom, Hazrat lmam Muhammad Baqar has said:- The worst parents are those, who exceed their limits in loving their children, making them feel happy, and In pleasing them.88 ************** ____________________ 88. Tari'kh Yaquobl, Vol:2, Page:53. Hayat al-lmam Muhammad Baqar, by, Baqar Sharief al-Qarashie, VoI:1, Page:312. 10. Knowledge and Skill "knowledge and awareness", man is incomplete! Man gains celebrity by "knowledge and skill".
It may be more appropriate to say, that without That is why, right at the start of the Islamic movement, the first "divine revelation" which was "tutored" to the Prophet was:- "Oh Prophet! commence reading by the name of your Nourisher, who is the Creator of the entire universe. It is He, who gave birth to Man, from the clotted (speck of) blood. Yes (of course), do read, and your Rabb (Lord, master) is very gracious. Who deliver education through (the) pen.
He educated (informed) Man, regarding what he knew nothing.89 And what a miraculous approach was adopted by the Last Prophet (SAWAW), that the light of the caravan of knowledge and understanding, so expeditiously spread far and wide, that not only a complete illiterate nation turned literate, but: in no time started educating the whole world!