Do not satisfy your desire in whatever way available there should be marriage...
Do not satisfy your desire in whatever way available there should be marriage, and there should be (lawful) trade, industry and agriculture though the door of the center of desire and anger is opened by letting them free.” So, the prophets demand them to be chained, not to be set free, and they do not invite to worldly things. They ask for a lawful business so as to prohibit the unlawful ones.
They call to marriage in order to curb the nature and prevent debauchery and releasing the power of desire [ shahwat ]. As a matter of fact, they are not absolutely against them, because it would be against the perfect system. In short, as we feel we need this world, regarding it to be the capital of life and the source of pleasure, we get ready to attend to it and to acquire it.
But if we believe in the Hereafter-life and feel we are in need of that life, and regard worship, especially the Salat , to be the capital for living there, and the source of happiness in that world, we, naturally, will try to do our best to acquire it, and we will not feel any difficulty and fatigue in ourselves; or rather, we will hurry to acquire it with complete eagerness and craving, and endure every hardship and undergo all circumstances for that purpose.
Now, this coldness and weakness, which are manifest in us, are caused by the coldness of the radiance of our faith and the weakness of its foundation. Had all the news of the prophets and holy men [ awliyā' ] (' a ) and the arguments of the elite and learned men (may Allah be pleased with them) created “sufferance” [ ihtimāl ] in us, we could have done better in our attempts and acquirements.
So, we have to regret a thousand times for letting Satan overcome our inside and conquer the whole of our heart and the hearings of our interior, preventing us from hearing the sayings of Allah and His Messengers, and those of the scholars, as well as the admonitions of the divine Books.