Would any of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother?
Would any of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother?" Holy Qur'an (49: 12) G- Calumny: Is transferring what we hear from one person to another in order to spoil their relationship; it is a bad habit. Instead of doing something to strengthen the relationship between people, the person with this type of habit tries to create misunderstanding between them.
Thus, the Almighty Allah says: "And yield you not unto any despicable swearer, defamer, going about with slander." Holy Qur'an (68: 10-11) And it is also reported in a hadith that: "Whoever bring someone's sayings to you will take yours to others.
" And the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.) said: "'Would that I tell you about the most evil person among you?' They said: 'O yes, O Messenger of Allah', Then he said: 'They are those who are calumnious, spoilers of relations between people.'" H- Violating Sanctity: All the above mentioned repellants serve as a way of violating the sanctity of a believer, which was described - by prophetic narration - as superior than the sanctity of Ka'ba.
With all these, some people are doing their best to destroy the dignity of a believer in order to downgrade his social position. The Almighty Allah says: "Verily those who love to spread scandal about those who believe, they shall have a grievous chastisement in this world and the hereafter." Holy Qur'an (24: 19) It is narrated that: "Do not move without modesty between you and your brother….preserve it, because not having it like doing away with shyness.
" It is not virtue to hurt, disgrace, degrade and hurt a believer. The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.) said: "Whoever hurts a believer hurts me, and whoever hurts me hurts Allah." I- Among the factors that destroy brotherhood and friendship is: 'enmity', and 'hostility', 'abuse', which is more controversial than the others, to the extent that the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.) said: "Whoever abuses a man, his personality falls and his dignity is gone." And 'malice', arguing', 'hearsay', which is among calumny, backbiting and degrading, 'mutual hatred', which breaks the bridge of relationship, are reported in a hadith that: "In mutual hatred, there is a shaver - not a shaver of hair - but the shaver of religion," and lastly, double-facedness (hypocrisy).
Imam Ali (a.s.) said: "Whoever extends the limits in arguing is an offenders; whoever shortens it is an oppressed.