If we say that the cause of the prohibition of wine is the...
If we say that the cause of the prohibition of wine is the loss of one’s reason where Allah says, “O you who believe, do not go near prayer when you are intoxicated until you know (well) what you say ,” Qur'an, 4:34 , Then, is the one who is not intoxicated after drinking a cup or two of wine, not subject to this ruling? Certainly not, O my friend! That substance whose much quantity causes intoxication, the little of it (even one drop) is also unlawful.
And if we say that the cause of the prohibition of pig is impurity and filthiness, then will eating its meat be lawful when it is sterilized and all microbes are removed!? The rulings of Allah do not rely on only one cause. There may be many causes that no one knows except Allah the Almighty. Therefore, we must be satisfied with the rulings of Allah and accept them willingly and submissively, because Allah does not want for His people except what brings them good and prosperity.
Allah says: Is it then the judgment of (the times of) ignorance that they desire? And who is better than Allah to judge for a people who are sure? Qur'an, 5:50, That is Allah’s judgment; He judges between you and Allah is Knowing, Wise. Qur'an, 60:10 Therefore, Muslims have to be submissive and obedient.
Allah says: It behaves not a believing man and a believing woman that they should have any choice in their matter when Allah and His Messenger have decided a matter; and whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger, he surely strays off a manifest straying .
Qur'an, 33:36 On this basis, believing men and believing women have to accept the decree of Allah concerning the matter of temporary marriage and to thank Him for this mercy, especially woman whom Allah has given through this marriage all the rights, whereas man only has the right to accept or not. In the continuous marriage, man has “the right of bed” that whenever he asks her wife to sleep with, she has no right to refuse. A husband has the right to sleep with his wife whenever he likes.
She even has no right, legally, to fast recommendable fasting (not even in Ramadan) except by his permission. Allah says: Your wives are a tilth for you, so go into your tilth whenever you like . Qur'an, 2:223 Man has also been given the right to divorce his wife. Allah says: O Prophet! when you divorce women, divorce them for their prescribed time (iddah) . Qur'an, 65:1 Man also has been given the right to return his wife (to marital life) before the end of the iddah .