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Shiavault - a Vault of Shia Islamic Books Daughters of Another Path (experience of American Women Choosing Islam) Food and Drink Considerations Pork products and alcoholic drinks are considered haram (forbidden) by practicing Muslims. They check labels carefully to be sure those products are riot in food items they purchase. Many practicing Muslims also try to eat only halal (approved) meats that are slaughtered in a prescribed manner.
These meats are purchased at specialty stores, or the families butcher their own meat in the appropriate manner. Checking with the Muslim family is the only way to determine what is best to serve when they come to visit. Vegetarian meals or fish are acceptable alternatives, or they may bring an halal main entree to be served along with what is being prepared. Some of the women expressed concern about eating when visiting families. +Stress usually comes up when we visit my parents.
Since we eat only Muslim slaughtered halal meats, we are reluctant to eat anything, so we would bring our own food. Even though we have explained the Islamic method of slaughter, I feel that they are uncomfortable with us bringing our own food. They thought this was another rejection, as if their food was not good enough for us or was unclean. However, when they come to visit in our home, they eat whatever I cook and we seem to have a much happier and less stressful time.
I would never leave my child with my parents. There is too much pork in the house. The worst thing about visiting my folks is eating. They don't care what they eat. My parents sometimes get mad when I tell them I can't eat the same food they are eating. I do not leave my children with my family. We have never visited for more than a couple of hours at a time since I became Muslim. In doing this, I also avoid another potential problem-that of halal food.
My parents do not understand or accept the concept of halal/haram food. We simply avoid the issue and don't eat at their house. Alcohol is offensive to most Muslims and they would feel more comfortable if it is not served when they are present. They may even avoid restaurants that have a bar or serve liquor. They may often avoid business lunches or company picnics where alcohol is served.
Modesty in Dress and Social Relationships Many Muslims try to avoid places or media that feature scantily clad persons or actions that are considered offensive. Even family swimming pools may be off limits.