If the mentor is wise...
If the mentor is wise, thoughtful and patient he can to a greater extent counter the negative impact of his wife’s behavior on the training of the child. This is no doubt a difficult task but there is no way out of it. One intellectual says: “A family in which the father and the mother think alike about the upbringing of the children and are able to mould their character and actions accordingly the impact on the senses of the children will be ideal.
The family unit is a small society in which the child’s moral character assumes definite form. A family in which the members are friendly towards each other their children are generally mild mannered, self respecting and judicious. Against this, a family where the parents have the habit of contradicting each other their children will be morally deficient, pretentious and excitable." [^1]: Ghurar al Hukm, p.
181 [^2]: Ghurar al Hukm, p.580 [^3]: Ghurar al Hukm, p.260 [^4]: Ghurar al Hukm, p.176 Previous…