The second type of asking is the seeking help from others in...

The second type of asking is the seeking help from others in order to further oneself materially. In Islam, anyone claiming to be a beggar is disliked and one who does not strive to remove himself from this position is out of favour with Allah (S.W.T.) and the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.w.).

Once a man came and asked the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.w.), "O Prophet of Allah, advise me of good acts with which I may pave my way towards Jannah (Paradise)." In answer to the man's query, the Prophet (s.a.w.w.) recommended three important points. He told him: "If you really wish happiness in the eternal life of the hereafter and want to be amongst the dwellers of Jannah, take the following points seriously and implement them: Avoid getting unnecessarily annoyed.

Do not ask (material) things from people. Like for others what you like for yourself." What an important message to us all! The Prophet (s.a.w.w.) clearly shows us that a true Believer is not dependent on people. We must try not to humiliate ourselves in front of others. On the Day of Judgement, Allah (S.W.T.) will bring down disgrace upon those who relied on fellow human beings for their sustenance. The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.w.) showed utmost respect to the Muslims and looked at them with dignity.

Therefore, a Muslim must not lower himself in front of others under any circumstances. He must learn how to ask for the fulfilment wishes and to direct his requests only to the most Kind and Merciful Lord. Muslims are valuable people and most surely valuable in His eyes too! If we take a look at one event that took place during the time of the Prophet (s.a.w.w.), we will be better able to appreciate this message.

This is what happened: There was a man in the city who did not work for his livelihood. His family lived in appalling conditions of poverty. One day, his wife suggested that he go and visit the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.w.) and ask for some advice. She was confident that he would be in a position to assist them in their difficult times and would help ease their problems. The man reached the Prophet (s.a.w.w.)'s house and found people gathered around him. (s.a.w.w.) greeted and welcomed him.

The man sat down but felt ashamed to state his problems in front of the others. Through his divine knowledge, the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.w.) knew the purpose of the man's visit, and began to address all those seated. He said: "Any one who seeks my help, I will most certainly help him.