There is not a winner in these disputes where the one defeated runs away.

There is not a winner in these disputes where the one defeated runs away. Yes, you crack your fingers in happiness over your victory; but you think about the condition of your opponent! You made him feel ignorant and hurt his feelings leaving a scar on his heart. ‘“Disputing is an inappropriate way to convince others, and to influence the way that other’s think. In fact, there is no relationship between convincing and disputing, nor can misunderstandings be removed by disputing.

Selected advice and a peaceful approach are the elements needed in this case. It is incumbent on man to sympathize with his opponent.” The Messenger of Allah (S) said: “Avoid bragging for the lack of its goodness; and…