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Shiavault - a Vault of Shia Islamic Books The Religion of Al-Islam and Marriage The First Two Years: A Marriage Survival Guide Adapted By Saleem Bhimji From the Article Found on www.soundvision.com More Muslim marriages in North are breaking up in their first year than ever before, according to the scholars in North America who are having to cope with the increase in marital disputes and divorce cases. The first five to seven years are the most challenging of any marriage.
They are the time that the couple spends getting to know one another better and adjusting to each other's habits and personalities. Below, are some of the main problems couples face in the early years, and some possible solutions. Lack of Proper Information before Marriage A number of problems are caused simply by the fact that the couple and their families go not discuss crucial issues beforehand. Some of these include: • Whether or not the wife will work outside the home?
Many couples today are refusing to compromise within moderation when differences arise. While from an Islamic perspective, the husband is given the leadership role in the marriage relationship, this does not mean that he can run the family life like a dictator.
A leader must also have humbleness and humility and deal with all of those under his care and protection with justice and equality.