Allahummahj-a'lhaa indaka fee a-laa I'leeyeens wakhluf a'laa...
Allahummahj-a'lhaa indaka fee a-laa I'leeyeens wakhluf a'laa ahlihaa filghaabireena warh'amha birah'matika yaa arh'amar raah'imeen." (O Allah! Verily this is Your maid and the daughter of Your servant and Your maid. She has gone over to You and You are the best to be gone to. O Allah! we know not about her save good and You know her better than we do. O Allah! if she was a doer of good then add her good acts. And if she was an evil-doer then forgive her, and grant pardon to her. O Allah!
put her near You in the High Sector of Paradise and appoint her successor from among those relations who survive her and be merciful to her, O the Most Merciful.) If the deceased is a minor, recite the following: "Allahumaaj a'lhu li-abawayhi wa lanaa salafanw wa farat'an'w wa ajraa." (O Allah let him be a pioneer and occupier of a place and a reward for his parents and for us.) (Female translation not available at present) If the deceased is an insane person, recite the following: "Allahummaghfir lillad'eena taaboo wattaba-u' sabeelaka waqihim a'ad'aabal jah'eem." (O Allah!
Forgive those who have repented and have followed Your path and save them from the punishment of hell.) Then recite "Allahu Akbar", the fifth Takbeer, with hands raised up to the ears. [Sayyid, Hadi Husayn (1988), pg. 150-154] Chapter Fourteen : The Grave and Burial The Grave needs to be the length of the deceased but needs to wide enough for a man to be able to sit or stand between the deceased and the wall of the grave, on the Qibla side.
If it is to be a man who is to lay the deceased down in the grave, he is to not wear anything on their feet or their head. If it is to be a woman who lays the deceased down in the grave, she is not required to go bare feet and still wears head cover. It is Makrooh (undesirable) for a Naa Mahram (an individual who is able to marry) to enter the grave of the deceased but a husband or wife of the deceased is allowed. If a Mahram man is not available then a pious woman may enter the grave.
If a pious woman is not available, them a pious man may enter the grave for the final laying down of the deceased. All Naa Mahrams need to move away from the grave when a woman is transferred from the bier to the grave, or a curtain is to be drawn around the grave. [Sayyid, Hadi Husayn (1988), pg. 155] Allamah Qutubuddin Rawandi is quoted as having said that after the death of Lady Maryam [A.S.], her son Prophet Isa [A.S.] called out to her and said: "O Mother!