Shiavault - a Vault of Shia Islamic Books Ghurar Al-Hikam Wa Durar Al-Kalim, Exalted Aphorisms And Pearls Of Speech Harm And Preventing Harm Harm and Preventing Harm الأذى وكف الأذى Harm breeds hatred. 1ـ اَلأذى يَجْلِبُ القِلى. One who prevents himself from harming [others] will not be opposed [or hated] by anyone. 2ـ مَنْ كَفَّ أذاهُ لَمْ يُعانِدْهُ أحدٌ. Preventing yourself from harming [others] reforms the hearts of your enemies towards you. 3ـ مَنْعُ أذاكَ يُصلِحُ لَكَ قُلُوبُ عِداكَ.