Shiavault - a Vault of Shia Islamic Books Ghurar Al-Hikam Wa Durar Al-Kalim, Exalted Aphorisms And Pearls Of Speech Courteousness Courteousness-التلطُّف When you are the cause of someone’s affliction, it is obligatory upon you to show courtesy [and kindness] in trying to remedy his affliction. 1ـ مَنْ كُنْتَ سَبَباً لَهُ في بَلائِهِ، وَجَبَ عَلَيْكَ التَّلَطُّفُ في عَلاجِ دائِهِ. Previous Next