Imam Ali bn Al-Hussein (peace be upon him) has recommended that and said...
Imam Ali bn Al-Hussein (peace be upon him) has recommended that and said: "Your Right as herdsman for what you have possess through marriage are: - to know that Allah has made her your dwelling, places of relaxation, intimacy and protector like this it is compulsory for the both of you to praise Allah for His companionship and knows that, that is a benefaction from Him on you.
It is incumbent to make good friendship with this benefaction of Allah, respect her and be kind with her even though your Right over her is heavier. Your obedience over her is compulsory on what you like and what you dislike which is not sin.
Verily she owned the Right of blessing, intimacy, place of relaxation and compliance to your delectation that there is no doubt of it, though that is the most great out of all...."[^4] Verily the Ahlulbait (peace be upon them) has focus on perpetual relations, love and intimacy in the family. Their advices directed to every men and women.
The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him and his descendants) said: "The best among you is he who does well to his wife and I am better than you in doing goods to my wife"[^5]. Imam Jaafar Ibn Mohammad Assadiq (peace be upon him) said: "May Allah bless a servant that does well between himself and his wife" [^6] The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him and his descendants) said: "Whoever takes a wife should honor her"[^7].
The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him and his descendants) said: "Jabra'il (peace be upon him) warned me about women until I deem it is not necessary to divorce her except in case of a clear Adultery"[^8]. The sayings of the Ahlulbait (peace be upon them) and their advices in doing goods to women and honoring them is one of the factors that assist the continuation of cordiality, blessing and love.
Already the Ahlulbait (peace be upon them) has advice women that will lead to her perpetual cordiality, love and blessing if she adhere to it. Among it is obedience to her husband.
The Prophet (peace be upon him and his descendants)said : "If a woman prays five times daily, fast in its month, guides her private part and obeyed her husband, she will enters the Paradise from any door she wishes" The holy Prophet (peace be upon him and his descendants) said: "There is no benefit a man enjoys after Islam than a Muslim wife, he feels happy when glance at her, she obeyed him when he commands her, she guides herself and her husband's properties when he is absent from her"[^9].