Also it is for every one of the two spouses to thank Allah...

Also it is for every one of the two spouses to thank Allah for his companionship and to know that it is a blessing from Allah and to make good friendship, respect and leniency with this blessing of Allah because she possesses the Right of intimacy and place of rest, in her your delectation"[^38]. Good dealings are to have good conduct, leniency and let her hear good words from you.

Honor her and kept her in a suitable place, considered her a partnership in life and satisfies all her spiritual and material needs. Treat her like human beings as honored by Islam and allow happiness, smiling, cordiality and blessing to prevail in the house. Try to create happiness in her mind and safe guide her secrecy and others that Islamic teaching which it has laid emphasis on.

Among it is to assist her in some difficult domestic duties, be patient of her mistakes and short-comings which did not affect her Islamic ways of life. Make reconciliation in solving the daily problems in such a way that it will not annoyed her and distance from any thing that will psychologically affect her like unnecessary jealousy, frown of face before her, beating her or abandoning her or reducing some of her Rights[^39].

If you treat her very well, her spiritual and psychological condition will be good and it will reflect on the embryo. [^1] - Ilmi Nnafs Attarbawi: 45 - 57 -by DR. Fakhir Aqil (11th edition printed by Darul Ilmi lil malaayeen 1985 A.D.) [^2] - Ilmi Nnafsil Aam vol- 1: 94 - by Dr. Anthon Hamsi - printed by Mat'ba'ah Demeshq 1407 A.H. [^3] - Al-kafi by Kulaini vol-5:332/ 2nd ch- selecting spouse, Printed by Daru Atta'aruf 3rd edition, 1401 A.H.

[^4] - Al-mahabba Al-baida'i vol- 3: 93 by Faidhi Kashaani, 3rd edition Jaamiyatil mudariseen Qom. [^5] - Makaarimul Akh'laq: 304 -by Tabrasi - printed by Manshuraati sh-sherifa Rridah 2nd edition 1410 A.H. [^6] - Makaarimul Akh'laq: 305 -by Tabrasi - printed by Manshuraati sh-sherifa Rridah 2nd edition 1410 A.H. [^7] - Wasaa'ili sh-shiyyah vol- 20: 85 /1st ch-34 - by Huril Aamuli - printed by Muasasah Aali bait Qom 1st edition 1412 A.H.

[^8] - Al-kafi vol-5:354/ 1st ch prohibition from marrying foolish woman. [^9] - Al-kafi vol-5:352/ ch - Virtues of marrying religious woman [^10] - Al-kafi vol-5:333/ 3rd ch- Virtues of marrying a religious person [^11] - Al-kafi vol-5:347/ 1st ch- The competency. [^12] - Al-kafi vol-5: 348. [^13] - Al-kafi vol-5: 348/ 2nd &3rd ch- last part. [^14] - Makarimul Akh'laq: 305.