After sitting down he said...
After sitting
down he said: `O Messenger of Allah, you surely know of my devotion
and long standing service to Islam...'
The Prophet then said: `What is it that you want?' Abu Bakr then said:
`I want you to give me Fatima in marriage.'
When the Prophet heard this, he did not say anything, so Abu Bakr
returned to Umar and said: `I have ruined myself and others!!'
Abu Bakr replied: `I asked for Fatima's hand from the Prophet, but he
Umar said: `You stay here, and I will go ask the Prophet for the same
thing that you asked him for.' Umar went to the Prophet and after
sitting down started saying: `O Messenger of Allah, you surely know of
my devotion and long standing service to Islam...'
The Prophet (S) then said: `What is it that you want?'
Umar replied: `I want you to give me Fatima in marriage.'
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Umar returned to Abu Bakr and said: `He is waiting for Allah's
Al-Haithami also reported in his book Majma Az- Zawa'ed that Abu
Bakr and Umar sent their daughters to the Prophet (S) in order to ask
him to give Fatima in marriage to them; but when the daughters
mentioned why they had come, the Prophet said: "No! Not until Allah's
command in her regard is revealed"
Perhaps the Messenger avoided telling Abu Bakr and Umar openly
that he is keeping Fatima for the qualified man, because he did not
want to declare to them that they were unqualified to marry her, and
that his daughter was above their level. The Prophet also wanted
everything to occur in its natural order. Imam Ali (A) was staying in the house of Saad Ibn Ma'adh (according
to one historical finding) since he immigrated to Medina. One day,
While Imam Ali was in one of the gardens of Medina, Saad came to
him and said: "What prevents you from asking to marry Fatima from
It has also been mentioned in Kanz al-Umal that Umar came to Ali
(may Allah be pleased with him) and said: "What prevents you from
(marrying) Fatima?" Imam Ali replied: "I fear that he (the Prophet) will
not give her to me in marriage!"
Umar said: "If he does not give her to you in marriage, then who will
she marry? Besides, you are the nearest of Allah's creatures to him
Actually, Ali had never mentioned his desire to marry Fatima for two
reasons; first his shyness to do so in front of the Prophet, and
secondly because of his very difficult economic condition. Imam Ali
owned nothing of the empherial belongings of this world-not even a
house or a peace of land!!
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