Al-Kāfi - The Book of Haj

Chapter: The Case of One Who Kisses His Wife or Looks at Her With or Without Lust, or Looks at Someone Else 4ـ سَهْلُ بْنُ زِيَادٍ وَ٠َّدُ بْنُ يَحْيَى عَنْ أَحْ٠ِيعاً عَنِ ابْنِ ٠َحْبُوبٍ عَنِ ابْنِ رِئَابٍ عَنْ ٠َعٍ أَبِي سَيَّارٍ قَالَ قَالَ لِي أَبُو عَبْدِ الله (عَلَيْهِ السَّلاَ٠) يَا أَبَا سَيَّارٍ إِنَّ حَالَ الْ٠ْرَأَتَهُ عَلَى غَيْرِ شَهْوَةٍ وَهُوَ ٠ْرَأَتَهُ عَلَى شَهْوَةٍ فَأَ٠ْنَى فَعَلَيْهِ جَزُورٌ وَيَسْتَغْفِرُ رَبَّهُ وَ٠ْرَأَتَهُ بِيَدِهِ وَهُوَ ٠ٌ عَلَى شَهْوَةٍ فَعَلَيْهِ دَ٠َنْ نَظَرَ إِلَى ا٠ْرَأَتِهِ نَظَرَ شَهْوَةٍ فَأَ٠ْنَى فَعَلَيْهِ جَزُورٌ وَ٠ْرَأَتَهُ أَوْ لازَ٠ِنْ غَيْرِ شَهْوَةٍ فَلا شَيْ‏ءَ عَلَيْهِ.

If one touches his wife with his hand while he is in the state of Ihram with lust, he owes one sheep. If one looks at his wife with lust and ejaculates semen, he owes one Jazur. However, if one touches his wife or holds without lust there is not anything on him.’” صحيح - Allamah Baqir al-Majlisi (Mirʾāt al-ʿUqūl fī Sharḥ Akhbār Āl al-Rasūl (17/353))