Are you -asws forbidding from this one alone?
Are you -asws forbidding from this one alone?’ So he -asws said: ‘I -asws am forbidding you all to place the soil upon the relatives, for that inherits the hardness in the heart; and the one who is hard of heart is remote from his Lord -azwj Mighty and Majestic ’.
[17] Descend into the graves without shoes أبي رحمه الله قال: حدثنا سعد بن عبد الله عن محمد بن عيسى عن ابن أبي عمير عن علي بن يقطين قال: سمعت أبا الحسن الاول (ع) لا تنزل في القبر وعليك العمامة ولا القلنسوة ولا الحذاء ولا الطيلسان وحل ازررارك فذلك سنة من رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله، قلت: فالخف؟ قال: لا أرى به بأسا، قلت لم يكره الحذاء؟ قال: مخافة أن يعثر برجيله فيهدم.
My father said, ‘Sa’ad Bin Abdullah narrated to us, from Muhammad Bin Isa, from Ibn Abu Umeyr, from Ali Bin Yaqteen who said, ‘I heard Abu Al-Hassan -asws the 1 st (saying): ‘Do not descend into the grave and upon you is the turban, nor the hat, nor the shoes, nor the mantle, and loosen your trouser, so that is a Sunnah from Rasool-Allah -saww ’. I said, ‘So what about the socks?’ He -asws said: ‘I -asws do not see a problem with it’.
I said, ‘Why are the shoes disliked?’ He -asws said: ‘Fear that he would stumble by his feet and fall’.
[18] APPENDIX I: Non-Shia Ahadith Sources on women visiting graveyard In Sahih al-Bukhari: حدثنا قبيصة بن عقبة حدثنا سفيان عن خالد الحذاء عن أم الهذيل عن أم عطية رضي الله عنها قالت نهينا عن اتباع الجنائز ولم يعزم علينا It is narrated to us by Qubeysa Bin Arba, ‘It is narrated to us by Sufyan, from Khalid Al Haza’a, from Umm Al Hazeyl, from Umm Atiya, may Allah -azwj be Pleased with her, she said, ‘We are forbidden from following a funeral, and that was not binding upon us’’.
“We were forbidden from following the funeral procession [into the graveyard], but [the prohibition] was not binding.” In another account, a hadith of Abu Hurraira that Rasool Allah -saww was at a funeral and Umar saw a woman (following the funeral procession). He (Umar) yelled at her, but the Prophet -saww said to him: “Leave her alone, `Umar!
Verily her eyes shed tears, the soul feels the pangs, and the promised hour is near.” See the Text from Fath al-Bari in Arabic: عن الثوري بإسناد هذا الباب، بلفظ: ” نهانا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم “.