So He -azwj Made nine parts to be in the women and one part to be in the men...
So He -azwj Made nine parts to be in the women and one part to be in the men; and had Allah -azwj not Made the shyness to be in them upon a measurement of the parts of the desires (9 out of 10), there would have been nine women for every man, attaching themselves with him’.
Muhammad Bin Yahya, from one of his companions, from Marwak Bin Ubeyd, from Zur’at Bin Muhammad, from Sama’at Bin Mihran, from Abu Baseer who said, ‘I heard Abu Abdullah -asws saying: ‘Women have an additional ninety nine part enjoyment above men, but Allah -azwj has Attached the shyness to be upon them’. [33] . عنه عليه السلام قال: طلب الحوائج إلى الناس استلابٌ للعزّة ومُذهبة للحياء، واليأس ممّا في أيدي الناس عِزٌّ للمؤمن في دينه، والطمعُ هو الفقر الحاضر.
Imam Sadiq -asws said: “Asking people to give you what you need will ruin your honour and eliminate shyness, but seeking independence from people will be a source of honour for a believer in his religion, and greed is exactly the same as the present poverty.” [34] . قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله : الإيمان عريان ولباسه الحياء ، وزينته الوفاء ، ومروءته العمل الصالح ، وعماده الورع ، ولكلّ شيء أساسٌ واساس الاسلام حبّنا أهل البيت . Rasool Allah -saww said: “Faith is (like) a naked body.
Its clothing’s is shyness. Its adornments are fulfilling one’s promises. Its manliness is doing good deeds. Its pillar is piety. Everything has a foundation. The foundation of Islam is love for our family -asws , the members of the Holy Household.” [35] . وقال صلى الله عليه وآله : إنّ لكلّ دينٍ خلقاً وخلق الإسلام الحياء . Rasool Allah -saww said: “There is morality (ethics) in every religion and the morality of Islam is shyness.” [36] . وقال صلى الله عليه وآله : الحياء من الإيمان .
Rasool Allah -saww said: “Shyness is due to Eman (faith).” [37] .. قال أبو جعفر عليه السلام لميسر بن عبد العزيز: يا ميسر، إذا طلبتَ حاجةً فلا تَطلبها بالليل واطلبها بالنهار، فإنّ الحَياء في الوَجه. Imam Baqir -asws told Masir ibn Abdul Aziz: “O’ Masir! Whenever you want to ask (for a favour from) someone for something, do not do it at night. Ask for it in the daytime since then there is shame shown on the face.” [38] .