Associate with the people according to their own ways...

Abu Saeed Muhammad Bin Al Fazal Bin Muhammad Bin Is’haq Al Mazkar Al Naysabouri narrated to us, from Ahmad Bin Al Abbas Bin Hamza, from Ahmad Bin Yahya Al Sowfy Al Kufy, from Yahya Bin Maeen, from Hisham Bin Yusuf, from Abdullah Bin Suleyman Al Nowfaly, from Muhammad Bin Ali Bin Abdullah Bin Abbas, from his father, from his grandfather who said, ‘Rasool-Allah -saww said: ‘Love Allah -azwj when you come to be with His -azwj Bounties, and love me -saww for the love of Allah -azwj , and love the People -asws of my -saww Household for my -asws love’.

[13] حدثنا عبد الله بن محمد بن عبد الوهاب القرشي قال: حدثنا أبو نصر منصور بن عبد الله بن إبراهيم الاصبهاني قال: حدثنا على بن عبد الله قال حدثنا عثمان بن خرذاذ قال: حدثنا محمد بن عمران قال: حدثنا سعيد بن عمرو عن عبد الرحمان بن أبى ليلى عن ابيه ابى ليلى قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله لا يؤمن عبد حتى اكون أحب إليه من نفسه وتكون عترتي إليه أعز من عترته ويكون أهلي أحبه إليه من اهله وتكون ذاتي أحب إليه من ذاته.

Abdullah Bin Muhammad Bin Abdul Wahab Al Qarshy narrated to us, from Abu Nasr Mansour Bin Abdullah Bin Ibrahim Al Isbahany, from Ali Bin Abdullah, fro mUsman Bin Kharzaz, from Muhammad Bin Imran, from Saeed Bin Amro, from Abdul Rahman Bin Abu Layli, from his father Abu Layli who said, ‘Rasool-Allah -saww said: ‘A servant has not believed until he happens to love me -saww more than himself, and my -saww family happens to be more dear to him than his own relatives, my -saww self happens to be more beloved to him than his own self’.