وَ الْعَفْوُ سِرُّ اللَّهِ فِي الْقُلُوبِ قُلُوبِ خَوَاصِّهِ...
And the pardon is a Secret of Allah -azwj in the hearts, the hearts of His -azwj special ones, from the one He -azwj has Divulged to of His -azwj Secrets; and Rasool-Allah -saww had said: ‘Is one of you unable from being like Abu Zamzam?’ They said, ‘O Rasool-Allah -saww ! And who is Abu Zamzam?’ He -saww said: ‘A man who was from the ones before you all. Whenever it was morning, he says, ‘O Allah -azwj ! I shall give in charity with my honour to the people generally’’.
(The book) ‘Al Majalis’ of Al Mufeed – Ahmad Bin Al Waleed, from his father, from Al Saffar, from Ibn MArouf, from Ibn MAhziyar, from Ibn Fazzal, ‘From Abu Al-Hassan -asws having said: ‘No two parties will meet (in confrontation) except Allah ‑azwj will Help the mightiest of the two in pardoning’’.
(The book) ‘Kashf Al Ghumma’ – Abdul Aziz Al Janabizy said, ‘It is reported that Musa -asws Bin Ja’far -asws presented his -asws sons (to his -asws companions) one day. He -asws said to them: ‘O my -asws sons! I -asws am bequeathing you all with a bequest, so the one who preserves it would not stray being with it. A comer will come to you all making you hear in the right ear an abhorrence (an ill talk).
Then he will transfer to the left ear, and then he will apologise and say, ‘I did not say anything (from that)’. So, accept his excuse’’ .