{"id":26294,"date":"2023-10-24T20:17:58","date_gmt":"2023-10-24T20:17:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hubeali.com\/?p=26294"},"modified":"2024-03-08T22:52:22","modified_gmt":"2024-03-08T22:52:22","slug":"never-let-people-lead-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hubeali.com\/never-let-people-lead-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Never let People Lead you"},"content":{"rendered":" Summary: \n In our lives, we frequently let people lead us and consequently we get humiliated and distressed. Some Ahadith are presented here where we are advised by the Masomeen -asws to preserve our tongues, gain knowledge and understanding of the religion. And should not let people, out of politeness, to start commanding us. \u00a0The submissive attitude is justifiable only under the conditions of compulsion (Taqeeya \u2013 dissimulation). \n Being led brings the disgrace: \n \u0642\u0631\u0628 \u0627\u0644\u0625\u0633\u0646\u0627\u062f \u0645\u064f\u062d\u064e\u0645\u0651\u064e\u062f\u064f \u0628\u0652\u0646\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0652\u062d\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0646\u0650 \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0639\u064f\u062b\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u0628\u0652\u0646\u0650 \u0639\u0650\u064a\u0633\u064e\u0649 \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0628\u0650\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0652\u062d\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0623\u064e\u0648\u0651\u064e\u0644\u0650 \u0639 \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u0633\u064e\u0645\u0650\u0639\u0652\u062a\u064f\u0647\u064f \u064a\u064e\u0642\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064f \u0644\u0650\u0631\u064e\u062c\u064f\u0644\u064d\u200f \u0644\u064e\u0627 \u062a\u064f\u0645\u064e\u0643\u0651\u0650\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0633\u064e \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0642\u0650\u064a\u064e\u0627\u062f\u0650\u0643\u064e \u0641\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0630\u0650\u0644\u064e\u200f. \n (The book) \u2018Qurb Al Asnad\u2019 \u2013 Muhammad Bin Al-Hassan, from Usman Bin Isa, \n \u2018From Abu Al-Hassan -asws the 1 st, he (the narrator) said, \u2018I heard him -asws saying to a man: \u2018Do not enable people to lead you for you will be disgraced\u2019\u2019. [1] \n Be silent, hold your tongue and don\u2019t load people upon your necks \n \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652\u0647\u064f \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u062d\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0646\u0650 \u0628\u0652\u0646\u0650 \u0645\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0628\u064f\u0648\u0628\u064d \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0628\u0650\u064a \u0639\u064e\u0644\u0650\u064a\u0651\u064d \u0627\u0644\u0652\u062c\u064e\u0648\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0646\u0650\u064a\u0651\u0650 \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u0634\u064e\u0647\u0650\u062f\u0652\u062a\u064f \u0623\u064e\u0628\u064e\u0627 \u0639\u064e\u0628\u0652\u062f\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 ( \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0644\u0627\u0645 ) \u0648\u064e \u0647\u064f\u0648\u064e \u064a\u064e\u0642\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064f \u0644\u0650\u0645\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0644\u064b\u0649 \u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f \u064a\u064f\u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064f \u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0633\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0650\u0645\u064c \u0648\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0636\u064e\u0639\u064e \u064a\u064e\u062f\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0634\u064e\u0641\u064e\u062a\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u0650 \u0648\u064e \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u064a\u064e\u0627 \u0633\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0650\u0645\u064f \u0627\u062d\u0652\u0641\u064e\u0638\u0652 \u0644\u0650\u0633\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e\u0643\u064e \u062a\u064e\u0633\u0652\u0644\u064e\u0645\u0652 \u0648\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0627 \u062a\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0644\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0633\u064e \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0631\u0650\u0642\u064e\u0627\u0628\u0650\u0646\u064e\u0627. \n From him, from Al Hassan Bin Mahboub, from Abu Ali Al Jawwany who said, \n \u2018I witnessed Abu Abdullah -asws, and he -asws was saying to a slave of his -asws called Saalim, and he -asws placed his -asws hand upon his lips and said: \u2018O Saalim! Preserve your tongue, you will be safe, and do not load the people upon our -asws necks \u2019. [2] \n \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652\u0647\u064f \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0639\u064f\u062b\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u0628\u0652\u0646\u0650 \u0639\u0650\u064a\u0633\u064e\u0649 \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u062d\u064e\u0636\u064e\u0631\u0652\u062a\u064f \u0623\u064e\u0628\u064e\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u062d\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0646\u0650 \u0635\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0627\u062a\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u0650 \u0648\u064e \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0631\u064e\u062c\u064f\u0644\u064c \u0623\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0635\u0650\u0646\u0650\u064a \u0641\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0627\u062d\u0652\u0641\u064e\u0638\u0652 \u0644\u0650\u0633\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e\u0643\u064e \u062a\u064f\u0639\u064e\u0632\u0651\u064e \u0648\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0627 \u062a\u064f\u0645\u064e\u0643\u0651\u0650\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0633\u064e \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0642\u0650\u064a\u064e\u0627\u062f\u0650\u0643\u064e \u0641\u064e\u062a\u064f\u0630\u0650\u0644\u0651\u064e \u0631\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0628\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0643\u064e. \n From him, from Usman Bin Isa who said, \n \u2018I was present with Abu Al-Hassan -asws and a man said to him: \u2018Advise me\u2019. So he -asws said to him: \u2018Preserve your tongue, you will be honoured, and do not enable the people into leading you, so your neck would be disgraced \u2019. [3] \n \u062d\u064f\u0645\u064e\u064a\u0652\u062f\u064f \u0628\u0652\u0646\u064f \u0632\u0650\u064a\u064e\u0627\u062f\u064d \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u062e\u064e\u0634\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0628\u0650 \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0628\u0652\u0646\u0650 \u0628\u064e\u0642\u0651\u064e\u0627\u062d\u064d \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0645\u064f\u0639\u064e\u0627\u0630\u0650 \u0628\u0652\u0646\u0650 \u062b\u064e\u0627\u0628\u0650\u062a\u064d \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0639\u064e\u0645\u0652\u0631\u0650\u0648 \u0628\u0652\u0646\u0650 \u062c\u064f\u0645\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0639\u064d \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0628\u0650\u064a \u0639\u064e\u0628\u0652\u062f\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 ( \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0644\u0627\u0645 ) \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u0643\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0633\u0650\u064a\u062d\u064f ( \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0644\u0627\u0645 ) \u064a\u064e\u0642\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064f \u0644\u064e\u0627 \u062a\u064f\u0643\u0652\u062b\u0650\u0631\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0643\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0645\u064e \u0641\u0650\u064a \u063a\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u0650 \u0630\u0650\u0643\u0652\u0631\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 \u0641\u064e\u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0630\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u064a\u064f\u0643\u0652\u062b\u0650\u0631\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0643\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0645\u064e \u0641\u0650\u064a \u063a\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u0650 \u0630\u0650\u0643\u0652\u0631\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0633\u0650\u064a\u064e\u0629\u064c \u0642\u064f\u0644\u064f\u0648\u0628\u064f\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0648\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0643\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0644\u064e\u0627 \u064a\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0644\u064e\u0645\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e. \n Humeyd Bin Ziyad, from Al Khashhab, from Ibn Baqah, from Muaz Bin Sabit, from Amro Bin Jumie, \n (It has been narrated) from Abu Abdullah -asws having said: \u2018The Messiah -as was saying: \u2018Do not frequent with the speech in other than the Remembrance of Allah -azwj, for those who are frequenting the speech in other than the Remembrance of Allah -azwj, it is hardening their hearts, but they are not knowing\u2019. [4] \n [1] Bihar Al-Anwaar V 72 – The book of relationships – Ch 87 H 7 \n [2] Al Kafi V 2 \u2013 The Book Of Belief and Disbelief CH 56 H 3 \n [3] Al Kafi V 2 \u2013 The Book Of Belief and Disbelief CH 56 H 4 \n [4] Al Kafi V 2 \u2013 The Book Of Belief and Disbelief CH 56 H 11 \n ","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Summary: In our lives, we frequently let people lead us and consequently we get humiliated and distressed. Some Ahadith are presented here where we are advised by the Masomeen-asws to preserve our tongues, gain knowledge and understanding of the religion. And should not let people, out of politeness, to start commanding us. \u00a0The submissive attitude… \n Never let People Lead you ","protected":false},"author":10681,"featured_media":25451,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"Layout":"2c-r","footnotes":""},"categories":[1,6],"tags":[3619,3618,3620],"class_list":["entry","author-kisa","post-26294","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-article","category-latest-update","tag-avoid-slavery","tag-dont-be-led","tag-humilation-in-following"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hubeali.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26294","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hubeali.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hubeali.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hubeali.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10681"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hubeali.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26294"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/hubeali.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26294\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26843,"href":"https:\/\/hubeali.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26294\/revisions\/26843"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hubeali.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25451"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hubeali.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26294"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hubeali.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26294"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hubeali.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26294"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}