Family Life | Hubeali en-US Family Life | Hubeali 32 32 Adoption Rasool Allah-saww, adopted Zayd, he was a devout Muslim and met martyrdom, see some Ahadith below, تفسير الإمام عليه السلام قَالَ أَمِيرُ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ ع‏ لَقَدْ بَعَثَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ص جَيْشاً ذَاتَ يَوْمٍ إِلَى قَوْمٍ مِنْ أَشِدَّاءِ الْكُفَّارِ فَأَبْطَأَ عَلَيْهِمْ‏ خَبَرُهُمْ وَ تَعَلَّقَ قَلْبُهُ بِهِمْ وَ قَالَ لَيْتَ لَنَا مَنْ يَتَعَرَّفُ أَخْبَارَهُمْ وَ يَأْتِينَا بِأَنْبَائِهِمْ Tafseer… The post Adoption first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Aging and Growing Older Some Ahadith are presented below related to aging. عِدَّةٌ مِنْ أَصْحَابِنَا عَنْ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي نَجْرَانَ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْقَاسِمِ عَنْ عَلِيِّ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ( عليه السلام ) قَالَ سَمِعْتُهُ يَقُولُ إِذَا بَلَغَ الْمُؤْمِنُ أَرْبَعِينَ سَنَةً آمَنَهُ اللَّهُ مِنَ الْأَدْوَاءِ الثَّلَاثَةِ الْبَرَصِ وَ الْجُذَامِ وَ الْجُنُونِ فَإِذَا بَلَغَ… The post Aging and Growing Older first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Court Marriage in Islam Is court marriage allowed in Islam? Under certain conditions, some couples decide to get married by registering themselves in government offices without having to go through a traditional Islamic ceremony. This type of marriage is allowed; however, it is recommended to have witness for the reason of inheritance, husband should give a dowry (gift) to… The post Court Marriage in Islam first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Disowned by Parents – Aaq Being disowned is a major sin علل الشرائع ابْنُ الْمُتَوَكِّلِ عَنِ السَّعْدَآبَادِيِّ عَنِ الْبَرْقِيِّ عَنْ عَبْدِ الْعَظِيمِ الْحَسَنِيِّ عَنْ أَبِي جَعْفَرٍ الثَّانِي عَنْ آبَائِهِ عَنِ الصَّادِقِ ع قَالَ: عُقُوقُ الْوَالِدَيْنِ مِنَ الْكَبَائِرِ لِأَنَّ اللَّهَ عَزَّ وَ جَلَّ جَعَلَ الْعَاقَّ عَصِيّاً شَقِيّاً. (The book) ‘Ilal Al Sharaie’ – Ibn Al Mutawakkil, from Al Sa’adabady, from Al… The post Disowned by Parents – Aaq first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Ear Rings for Children عَلِيُّ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ هَارُونَ بْنِ مُسْلِمٍ عَنْ مَسْعَدَةَ بْنِ صَدَقَةَ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ( عليه السلام ) قَالَ اخْتِنُوا أَوْلَادَكُمْ لِسَبْعَةِ أَيَّامٍ فَإِنَّهُ أَطْهَرُ وَ أَسْرَعُ لِنَبَاتِ اللَّحْمِ وَ إِنَّ الْأَرْضَ لَتَكْرَهُ بَوْلَ الْأَغْلَفِ Ali Bin Ibrahim, from haroun Bin Muslim, from Mas’ada Bin Sadaqa, (It has been narrated) from Abu Abdullah–asws having… The post Ear Rings for Children first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Family Life [Nikah, Mutah, Relationship and Upbringing Children] Introduction: An earlier article ‘Family Life [Nikah, Mutah, Relationship and Upbringing Children]’ which was compiled and uploaded in 2007, has been updated by adding more Ahadith with Arabic text. Adoring Women: عَلِيُّ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي عُمَيْرٍ عَنْ حَفْصِ بْنِ الْبَخْتَرِيِّ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ( عليه السلام ) قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ… The post Family Life [Nikah, Mutah, Relationship and Upbringing Children] first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Friends and Friendship Introduction: Good friends are an asset. Amir-ul-Momineen-asws says: Unfortunate is the one who cannot gain a few sincere friends during his life and more unfortunate is the one who has gained them and then lost them (by not paying attention and ending up annoying them).[1] The friends are a source of joy in this world… The post Friends and Friendship first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Good Relationships Avert Death نجم، كتاب النجوم عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ الْحِمْيَرِيُّ فِي كِتَابِ الدَّلَائِلِ بِإِسْنَادِهِ إِلَى مُيَسِّرٍ قَالَ: قَالَ لِي أَبُو عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ع يَا مُيَسِّرُ قَدْ حَضَرَ أَجَلُكَ غَيْرَ مَرَّةٍ كُلَّ ذَلِكَ يُؤَخِّرُكَ اللَّهُ‏ بِصِلَتِكَ رَحِمَكَ وَ بِرِّكَ قَرَابَتَكَ. (The book) ‘Kitab Al Nujoun’ – Abdullah Bin Ja’far Al Himeyri in ‘The book of Al Dalail’, by… The post Good Relationships Avert Death first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Husband is forbidden from beating his Wife Critics of Islam allege that a Muslim husband is allowed to beat-up his wife! Surely, that is not the case when we carefully scrutinise the Holy Verses of the Quran which have been misinterpreted. Allah-azwj Says in Verse 2:187: هُنَّ لِبَاسٌ لَكُمْ وَأَنْتُمْ لِبَاسٌ لَهُنَّ (They are clothing for you and you are clothing for… The post Husband is forbidden from beating his Wife first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Inflation – Good or Bad When we observe escalating prices, we get nervous as most of us have a fixed income. However, from financial point of view, inflation can be good or bad, depending on our situation, if we are owed money or people owe us money. Some financial experts see inflation as a sign of struggling economy whereas others… The post Inflation – Good or Bad first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Mahram and Na-Mahram Summary: Mahram, its root-word is ‘مَحْرَم‏’ meaning sacred (i.e., ٱلْـمَـسْـجِـد الْـحَـرَام Masjid Al-Harram, as there are certain extra restrictions due to its reverence), in terms of its application, usually Mahram means close relatives, by blood or by marriage, whereas, those who are not Mahram are referred as ‘Na-Mahram’. The term defines the extent of ‘حَيَاءَ’… The post Mahram and Na-Mahram first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Mixed Gender Gatherings In our society, there are mixed gender gatherings at both religious and non-religious occasions. As oppose to the time of our ancestors, mixed gender gatherings have become norm and anyone in opposition to these is considered out of touch with the modern life-style. In some places, one may just accept the way of life and… The post Mixed Gender Gatherings first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Newborn Opening Mouth, Aqiqah, Cleaning, Feeding A short article, based on the Ahadith of Masomeen-asws, is compiled in which few extremely necessary and important steps, one needs to take, in welcoming the newborn baby are presented. Opening the Mouth of the Newborn مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَحْيَى عَنْ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ عَنِ ابْنِ فَضَّالٍ عَنْ أَبِي إِسْمَاعِيلَ الصَّيْقَلِ… The post Newborn first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Poverty and Sufficiency Summary: Poverty, sufficiency and affluence are relative terms, and to be looked together with sustenance, lifestyle and extravagance[1] for leading a moderate life. In the article, we will about the poverty and sufficiency learn from Ahadith. The poverty which brings one to the brink of desperation/extinction is highly abhorred but poverty which guarantees achieving basic… The post Poverty and Sufficiency first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Professions and Business for Females Ladies, out of necessity and/or social and religious requirements, used to work during the pre-Islamic era – Rasool Allah-saww did not stop them from working and earning wages but instead encouraged them to carry on working in respectable fields – which were, in those days somewhat few and restricted at as compared with the work… The post Professions and Business for Females first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Puberty – Islamic Perspective Summary: Allah-azwj has Created Human and Jinn to worship Him-azwj.[1] All acts of worship require cleanliness, as well as the recognitions of permissible(s) and forbidden – one would be held responsible for one’s acts upon coming to the age of ‘puberty’! Generally, for boys the puberty age is 15 years whereas for girls it is… The post Puberty – Islamic Perspective first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Qamar dar Aqrab عِدَّةٌ مِنْ أَصْحَابِنَا عَنْ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ خَالِدٍ عَنْ عَلِيِّ بْنِ أَسْبَاطٍ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ حُمْرَانَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللَّهِ (عليه السلام) قَالَ مَنْ سَافَرَ أَوْ تَزَوَّجَ وَ الْقَمَرُ فِي الْعَقْرَبِ لَمْ يَرَ الْحُسْنَى. A number of our companions, from Ahmad Bin Muhammad Bin Khalid, from Ali Bin Asbaat, from… The post Qamar dar Aqrab first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Supplications for children and for a son الْمُتَهَجِّدُ، وَ غَيْرُهُ، رَوَى مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مُسْلِمٍ عَنْ أَبِي جَعْفَرٍ ع أَنَّهُ قَالَ: مَنْ أَرَادَ أَنْ يُحْبَلَ لَهُ فَلْيُصَلِّ رَكْعَتَيْنِ بَعْدَ الْجُمُعَةِ يُطِيلُ فِيهِمَا الرُّكُوعَ وَ السُّجُودَ وَ يَقُولُ بَعْدَهُمَا (The book) ‘Al Mutahajjid’ and others – It is reported by Muhammad Bin Muslim, ‘From Abu Ja’far-asws having said: ‘One who intends for a pregnancy… The post Supplications for children and for a son first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Upbringing Children Introduction: In our busy life style, we are always struggling to find time for our families. The upbringing of children always remains a major challenge for all of us, as our children spent most of their time in schools and while at home, their attention is mostly diverted by the media and the social networks. … The post Upbringing Children first appeared on Hubeali.]]> Welcoming the Newborn A short article, based on the Ahadith of Masomeen-asws, is compiled in which few extremely necessary and important steps, one needs to take, in welcoming the newborn baby are presented. Opening the Mouth of the Newborn مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَحْيَى عَنْ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ عَنِ ابْنِ فَضَّالٍ عَنْ أَبِي إِسْمَاعِيلَ الصَّيْقَلِ عَنْ أَبِي يَحْيَى الرَّازِيِّ عَنْ… The post Welcoming the Newborn first appeared on Hubeali.]]>