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Golden Guidelines towards a good matrimonial life - Al-Shia The Scientific and Cultural Website of Shia belief Golden Guidelines towards a good matrimonial life 2022-12-22 301 Views Family , Happy Home , Family Etiquettes , Matrimonial life Having a good matrimonial life is a collective responsibility of both the husbands and the wives. That is to say, each of the spouses has to observe certain responsibilities in order to have happy and successful matrimonial relationship.

We shall therefore highlight some of the golden guidelines to attain a good matrimonial life. Contents 1. Good Morality 2. Love 3. Moderate Expectation 4. Forgiving 1. Good Morality It is necessary for the spouses to consider few ethics which are repeatedly stressed in the Holy Qur’an for the sake of themselves as well as their children. One of such ethics necessary for a good matrimonial relationship is a good moral.

This will not only ease our progress on the way towards God, but it will also strengthen our marriage; increase our mutual love; and serve as a lesson for others, especially our children. Mutual adherence to morals will create an atmosphere of love and affection; peace and security; and health and purity and will make all aspects of our life delightful. In several verses, the Holy Quran has praised the noble Prophet for being good-tempered and adhering to this attribute.

The Qur’an says: “It is by Allah’s mercy that you are gentle to them; had you been harsh and hardhearted, they would have surely scattered from around you. ” (1) And, and indeed you possess a great character (2) The Prophet (PBUHH) on the other hands, said: Islam means being good-tempered (3) In his advice to the Commander of the Faithful, Ali son of Abu Talib (a.s), he (PBUHH) said: Shall I inform you of your closest trait to me? He answered in affirmative (4) .

The Prophet (Pbuh) said: The one with the best temper, the one who is the most persevering, the one who helps his relatives the most, and the one who is most fair to others regarding himself (5) Imam Hasan Mujtaba (a.s) also said: The best goodness is a good temper (6) Nobility and a good temper are so valuable that the noble Prophet of Islam (PBUHH) has declared it to be the reason for his appointment to the Prophethood (7) (8).

Being good-tempered and having good morals are rays of God’s attributes, the attribute of the noble Prophets of God and the Immaculate Imams and it is a source of goodness and blessings to the one with these attributes.