A bad temper and foul behavior on the other hands...

A bad temper and foul behavior on the other hands, are satanic and are the causes of disruption of life, insecurity, separation, and hatred of people; and will ruin the life, here and in the Hereafter. 2. Love God has established love in our hearts as husbands or wives and recognizes this to be one of the signs of His Existence. This fact is a manifestation of the importance and extent of love and especially the love and affection of husband towards his wife.

The Qur’an says: And of His signs is that He created for you mates from your own selves that you may take comfort in them, and He ordained affection and mercy between you. There are indeed signs in that for a people who reflect (9) This love and affection blossoms early in marriage and even before the religious wedding ceremony, and it grows until it reaches its final extent.

It is the responsibility of both partners in marriage to maintain this given blessing and this excellent spiritual state of love, which is the main cause of happiness and pleasure in life. This can be achieved by mutual support, being good-tempered, forgiving, cooperation, reasonable expectations, mutual respect, avoiding arguments, and fights. The couple should avoid what might harm their loving relationship.

In addition, they should know that any attempt to maintain a loving relationship is considered to be worship and any act that might hurt the foundation of love is undoubtedly a sin and deserves God’s punishment, and also causes grief and hurt in this life.

Regarding those who have the power to attract others affection, Imam Sadiq (a.s) said: May God bless those who can attract people’s affection (10) If there is no intellectual or religious legitimate reasons, converting love and affection into hatred, grudges and animosity is considered to be ungrateful to God’s blessings. On the other hand, maintaining a loving relationship and extending love to others is a cause of happiness in this world and the Hereafter.

Imam Sadiq (a.s) said: Woe to those who are ungrateful for God’s blessings, and blessed and prosperous be those who love each other for God (11) Man is enjoined to be affectionate to all the people who deserve his kindness, love and affection. Thus, our spouses and children who are even much closer to us require our love and affection. It has been written in a Hadith Qudsi (Allah says): The creatures are my dependents.