He may supplicate the Almighty to grant a young person guidance...

He may supplicate the Almighty to grant a young person guidance, a dead person mercy and forgiveness, and so on. The obligation is not dropped if one grants his honor to people because it is granting what should not be granted. Jurists have said that one who permits others to charge him doest not rescind his right for compensation. It has been narrated that the Prophet (ص) has said, "Can you at all be unable to do what Abū Damdam does? Whenever he leaves home, he says, 'Lord!

I have offered my honor by way of charity to people'?" ( Ihyā al-Ulūm , Vol. 3, p. 146). It means: "I do not demand on the Judgment Day retribution from one who has wronged me [by backbiting me],