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Therefore, another effect of having bad demeanor is other's disgust of the person and distancing themselves from one who has such negative traits. The third effect this trait brings is the punishment of the soul and this would affect the person himself! The person who has a negative demeanor actually ends up first off, annoying himself and then others! Woe upon the fire of bad etiquette since it first ends up burning the inside of the one who who this trait and then burns those around the person!

In addition, this trait would also produce physical illnesses and diseases and one would end up having a short life. Reasons Why People Have A Bad Character 1) Great Expectations: When a person has many expectations, then naturally, times would come when there would be a divergence in what he wants to happen and what actually transpires and due to this, he becomes angry.

However if a person's expectations - even in relation to his family and those close to him was not so high, then he would definitely not become angry with things going on around him. Such a person would be ready to deal with such situations and would say, “I did not expect that to happen” or, “…anything can happen.” Thus, if one was to develop such a spirit within himself, then he would not become confused in the face of difficulties.

2.Pride and Conceit: Those who have pride would naturally like to position themselves above others and due to their innate disposition, other people do not get along with such individuals (who have pride and conceit) and try not to pay attention to them. Thus, when those who have pride and conceit see that what they want is not carried out, they become upset and display their bad character.

3.Inability to Forgive: There are some people who only forgive some things done to them and thus, they become aggravated very easily. However, we must ensure that we are able to forgive and forget everything that has occurred since if a one was to forget things which have happened to him, then he would develop a positive demeanor.

The opposite of this statement is also true as if one did not practice the tradition of forgive and forget and was to always recall what happened to him in the past, then he would definitely get upset and in the end would develop the trait of having a negative demeanor! 4) Bad-Tempered and Irritable: A person who is bad tempered or irritable would not be able to deal with issues that come up in life.

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