I know only two of these cases where some people were...
I know only two of these cases where some people were provided with a house and money before marriage, but interestingly, they too were confronted with a cold, spiritless, and purposeless life due to them putting off and delaying their marriage for the procurement of house and money; since they wasted the spring of marriage that is the valuable period of youth till the “autumn of life” appeared.
The Good News Given By The Leaders of Islam The Prophet (S) who is the trustee of Allah's mysteries and secrets spoke about Allah’s help to the youth as follows: زوجوا أياماكم فإن الله يحسن لهم في أخلاقهم و يوسع لهم في أرزاقهم و يزيدهم في مرواتهم.
“Give spouse to your single ones, because Allah makes their morality better (improves it) (under the shadow of marriage) and expands their sustenance and increases their generosity (human values).” [^1] Yet again he says: من ترك التزويج مخافة العيلة فقد ساء الظن بالله. إن الله يقول: إن يكونوا فقراء يغنهم الله من فضله. “The one who forsakes and drops marriage for fear of poverty and adversity, indeed he has a bad (negative) opinion and thought about Allah.
Verily Allah said: 'If they are poor, Allah will turn them needless by His grace.'“ [^2] Again that magnanimous one says to the youth: ** ** إتخذوا الأهل فإنه أرزق لكم ** ** . “Get spouses, as that increases your sustenance.” [^3] الرزق مع النساء والعيال.
“Sustenance is with wives and family.” [^4] A Beautiful Example A young man who was extremely poor and penniless came into the presence of the holy Prophet (S) and complained to him about his poverty and adversity, and requested his guidance, saying: “Oh Prophet of Allah, what must I do to get out of this condition of extreme poverty and apprehension?” The Prophet said: “Do marry!” The young man was surprised and said to himself, “How can I, who do not have enough means to run my own life's expenses, marry and shoulder the responsibility and expenses of wife an myself together?” However, since he was completely sure about the correctness of the saying of the Muhammad (S) and believed in its truth, did get married and his life gradually and economically improved.
he came out of the state of poverty and misery. Deep attention to this good news and true promises projects sureness about Allah's aid and help in the human heart, so that one marries and is not afraid of the difficulties, hardships and hindrances.