Our main discussion pertains to the short term planning, i.
Our main discussion pertains to the short term planning, i.e. what might be done right now? So now we take up the real and actual difficulties. First Difficulty: Economic and Monetary Difficulty The major part of this difficulty is formed from the intricacies created by society, which is not the actual difficulty of marriage.
Had our life been based upon the foundations of Islam and human nature, these external difficulties would not have existed, or would have been extremely minimized, and there would have been no youth who could not marry due to such things. Anyway, these things presently exist and our society has brought them into being, and a solution must be sought for them. Solutions: 1.
Allah's Supports Allah and the leaders of Islam have given a lot of good news and hope in this regard, which can be very hopeful and trusting supports for the youth. It is obligatory and binding upon us to have complete satisfaction about these promises and news. Their promises and commitments are true. There could be no more hope - giving and enthusiasm - creating thing than this support for the youth who intend to marry but find the economical difficulties a hurdle and hindrance on their way.
Faith in this support brings about a great courage and valour in a man. Now we consider a few of those. Allah promises: و أنكحوا الأيامي منكم والصالحين من عبادكم و إمائكم إن يكونوا فقراء يغنهم الله من فضله والله واسع عليم “And marry those among you who are single and those who are fit among your male slaves and your female slaves; if they are needy, Allah will make them free from want out of His grace; and Allah is Ample-giving, knowing.
(24:32)” This is a clear, distinct and conspicuous promise of Allah; and which promise can be more trusting than Allah's? Young brother and sister, be satisfied and absolutely sure about this promises of Allah, then you will see the definite and bright result of it, Insha’Allah. I have personally seen and observed and touched this in many cases among my friends and acquaintances who did not have a house or wealth at the time of their marriage, but later on became house owners and wealthy.
Very rarely have I seen people possessing a house and material sources before marriage.