(To be adjustable in a good conformity...

(To be adjustable in a good conformity, his entity will be sound and guided base as if when the child is loved and accepted, feeling of tranquility in the house). The love and appreciations that the child perceive have a great effect in all aspect of his life, then he will be developed perfectly, linguistically, mentally, psychologically and socially. The child imitate when he likes and accept teachings, orders and advices from them.

He will then learn basis of good conduct from the parents and will reflect in his habit if he feels love and appreciations from both of them (parents). It has been stated in many narrations emphasizing the necessity of loving and honoring the child. The Prophet (peace be upon him and his descendants) said: "Honor your children and give them good education"[^18].

The Prophet (peace be upon him and his descendants) said: "May Allah bless a servant who help his child for his obedience by doing goods to him, harmonize with him and educates him"[^19]. He (peace be upon him and his descendants) said: "Parent's look at his child with love for him is a worship"[^20].

He (peace be upon him and his descendants) said: "Love children and have mercy on them and fulfill your promise to them whenever you promised them because they thought you provide their provisions"[^21].

Encouraging and commending children for their invention even though it is little and over looking their lapses, don't depreciate his sayings or his deeds and don't impel him more than his ability, all this are the substantial of love for them and making him to feel his status as it comes from the sayings of the Prophet (peace be upon him and his descendants): "May Allah have mercy on him who assist his child for his obedience .....

He accepts his feasible and over-look his short-comings and did not oppress him nor encroach with him"[^22]. To kiss children is among the best means that makes them feels of love and kindness. The prophet (peace be upon him and his descendants) said: "Increase the kissing of your children, because every kiss has a degree in the Paradise"[^23].

He (peace be upon him and his descendants) said: "Whoever kiss his child has done a good deed, whoever make his child happy, Allah will make him happy in the day of Resurrection ..... "[^24]. Imam Jaafar Assadiq (peace be upon him) said: "Be obedient to your parents so that your children will be in obedient to you"[^25].