[18] The Match (Compatibility) for Marraige...

[18] The Match (Compatibility) for Marraige: مع، معاني الأخبار أَبِي عَنْ سَعْدٍ عَنِ ابْنِ هَاشِمٍ عَنِ ابْنِ مَرَّارٍ عَنْ يُونُسَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي جَمَاعَةٌ مِنْ أَصْحَابِنَا عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ع أَنَّهُ قَالَ: الْكُفْوُ أَنْ يَكُونَ عَفِيفاً وَ عِنْدَهُ يَسَارٌ (The book) ‘Ma’any Al Akhbar’ – My father, from Sa’ad, from Ibn Hashim, from Ibn Marrar, from Yunus who said, ‘It is narrated to me by a group of our companions, ‘From Abu Abdullah -asws , he -asws said: ‘The match is that he should be chaste and there should be financial ease with him’’.

[19] ما، الأمالي للشيخ الطوسي بِهَذَا الْإِسْنَادِ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ص‏ إِذَا جَاءَكُمْ مَنْ تَرْضَوْنَ دِينَهُ وَ أَمَانَتَهُ يَخْطُبُ إِلَيْكُمْ فَزَوِّجُوهُ‏ إِلَّا تَفْعَلُوهُ تَكُنْ فِتْنَةٌ فِي الْأَرْضِ وَ فَسادٌ كَبِيرٌ (The book) ‘Al Amaali’ of the sheykh Al Tusi – By this chain, He -asws said: ‘Rasool-Allah -saww said: ‘When there comes to you someone you are pleased with his religion, and his trustworthiness, proposing to you (of your daughter), marry to him, if you do not do it, Fitna (strife) would occur in the land and a great mischief [8:73] ’’.

[20] وَ بِإِسْنَادِهِ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ( صلى الله عليه وآله ) أَنْكِحُوا الْأَكْفَاءَ وَ انْكِحُوا فِيهِمْ وَ اخْتَارُوا لِنُطَفِكُمْ And by his chain, ‘He -asws said: ‘Rasool-Allah -saww said: ‘Marry the matches and marry among them, and choose for your children (to be)’.

[21] Supplication for a Man when he wants to get married: مكا، مكارم الأخلاق رُوِيَ‏ أَنَّهُ سَأَلَ الصَّادِقُ ع أَبَا بَصِيرٍ إِذَا تَزَوَّجَ أَحَدُكُمْ كَيْفَ يَصْنَعُ (The book) ‘Makarim Al-Akhlaq’ – It is reported that Al-Sadiq -asws asked Abu Baseer: ‘When one of you gets married, how does he do it?’ قُلْتُ مَا أَدْرِي I said, ‘I don’t know’.

قَالَ إِذَا هَمَّ بِذَلِكَ فَلْيُصَلِّ رَكْعَتَيْنِ وَ يَحْمَدِ اللَّهَ عَزَّ وَ جَلَّ وَ يَقُولُ اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أُرِيدُ أَنْ أَتَزَوَّجَ اللَّهُمَّ فَقَدِّرْ لِي مِنَ النِّسَاءِ أَحْسَنَهُنَّ خُلْقاً وَ خَلْقاً وَ أَعَفَّهُنَّ فَرْجاً وَ أَحْفَظَهُنَّ لِي فِي نَفْسِهَا وَ مَالِي وَ أَوْسَعَهُنَّ رِزْقاً وَ أَعْظَمَهُنَّ بَرَكَةً وَ قَيِّضْ لِي مِنْهَا وَلَداً طَيِّباً تَجْعَلُهُ لِي خَلَفاً صَالِحاً فِي حَيَاتِي وَ بَعْدَ مَوْتِي He -asws said: ‘When he thinks of that, let him pray two units Salat and praise Allah -azwj Mighty and Majestic, and he should say, ‘O Allah -azwj , I intend to get married!